Writing

A few thoughts on doing deep, focused work each day…

-Don’t let your job and other responsibilities hold you back. You can be a professional writer one hour a day.

-Know what you will work on that day. How has Ryan Holiday been able to write more than a dozen books in as many years? He says that when he sits down to write, his goal is not, “finish the rough draft,” or “write until noon.” His goal is “write section 2 of chapter 3.”

-Set a stop time. Writing without a stop time is torture, Jerry Seinfeld said. “It’s like if you hire a trainer to get in shape, and you ask, ‘How long is the session?’ And he says, ‘It’s open-ended.’ Forget it. I’m not doing it.” If you’re going to sit down and write, there has to be a reward for that. “And the reward is the alarm goes off and you’re done.”

-Write every day. It adds up. Simon Sinek put it like this: “It’s like exercising or brushing your teeth. You don’t get in shape by going to the gym for 8 hours a few times a year. You get in shape by going to the gym for 30 minutes four or five or six days a week.”

-If you can, write at the same time each day. This will train your subconscious—your creativity—to kick in.

If I could share only a few of my favorite writing tips for showing up and staying on track, it would be these:

-Be less concerned with writing well and more concerned with sharing good ideas.

-What, exactly, are you trying to say? Say that.

-Good writing isn’t about something. It’s for someone. Pretend like you’re writing to a friend.

-The biggest problem writers face, says Ryan Holiday, is that they have nothing to actually say. Writing for the sake of writing isn’t the point. What can you not not say?

-Don’t worry about finding your voice. Just write as clearly as you can. An authentic voice follows clear writing.

-If it doesn’t excite you, don’t write about it.

-At every stage of the writing process, ask yourself, what is this thing about? What is the theme? Sometimes finding the theme is hard. You may not even know the theme while you’re writing. But never stop trying to find it.

-Writers don’t get writer’s block. Writers get caught up in thinking about whether their writing is good or bad.

-Steven Pressfield said to sit without hope and without fear. To work at your desk without the hope of writing something good nor the fear of writing something bad. He explains, “When I sit down to write in the morning, I literally have no expectations for myself or for the day’s work. My only goal is to put in three or four hours with my fingers punching the keys. I don’t judge myself on quality. I don’t hold myself accountable for quantity. The only questions I ask are, Did I show up? Did I try my best?”

Whenever I think I’m wasting time by journaling, I read this list of reasons why I do it:

-Paying attention to my life = happiness

-Self-reflection is the highest form of living. Epictetus said we differ from animals and plants in two ways: we can reason and reflect—two things animals and plants don’t need because they were made to obey, not command. Animals can look only outward and dream. Humans can look inward and, as Carl Jung said, awaken.

-I don’t journal to “be productive”. I journal to calm and prepare myself for the day (ironically making me more productive throughout).

-You can’t be your best on autopilot. None of us are perfect. And because we’re not perfect, we can always improve. And because we can always improve, we have an obligation to make a constant effort to improve. Journaling helps us make this effort by taking us off autopilot for a bit.

-There’s only one rule when it comes to your journal: fill it. Journals should be messy. If the inside of your journal is clean and neat and completely coherent, you’re probably doing it wrong. Austin Kleon put it brilliantly when he said his journals are crapholes where he goes to dump his brains out.

-Time rushes by like a raging river. The only way to slow it down and savor it is to slow ourselves down.

-Your subconscious knows you best. It’s wise. The problem is that it’s terribly quiet and shy. It often won’t respond to direct questioning. Journaling creates a patient, quiet, purpose-free space for your subconscious thoughts to roam freely. Only then, in familiar solitude with you, do they feel comfortable to speak up. (And when they do, they’re assertive.)

-If we don’t monitor our thoughts, we become vulnerable to their influence and control. We can end up living in the worst way: unconsciously. Lusting for money, worshiping material things, seeking power, thinking you’re the center of the universe…what’s insidious about these things “is not that they’re evil or sinful,” said David Foster Wallace, “it is that they are unconscious.” Journaling rewires our brains consciously.

-By dumping out our thoughts and feelings, by laying them before us, we’re able to sift through, untangle, and examine them. And discard the ones that no longer serve us.

Epictetus said our predicament is that time and again, we lose sight of what’s important. The truth never changes. Wisdom is always the same. Our brains are just exceptionally good at forgetting. Journaling helps to keep the important stuff front and center.

-Problems don’t need to be completely resolved for you to gain some relief from them. Sometimes we can loosen the grip of a sadness or a fear simply by naming it, by tracing its outline and examining its contours. “What we call depression,” Alain de Botton said, “is in fact sadness and anger that have for too long not been paid the attention they deserve.”

-Great things are happening in slow, inconspicuous ways. The trajectory of your life is made up of subtle, nearly imperceptible actions. It may not feel like it at the time, but the small moments you spend each day writing in your journal, working on yourself, are adding up in unfathomable ways.

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Some recent takeaways on writing/creating:

-In Lynda Barry’s What It Is there’s a short comic strip of a writer deep in thought, trying to figure out what she should write a book about. Ten years later, someone asks what her book is going to be about. “Shh! I’m still thinking,” she replies. We can’t think our way to good ideas. We have to roll up our sleeves. We have to do the work in front of us.

-Make time each day for your own work, and wear yourself out doing it.

-Don’t think about how long it’s going to take. Just focus on doing a little work on it each day.

-The best way to serve the world is to serve your work. And the best work is the work that connects the divine with the human.

Haruki Murakami said the best way to express yourself as freely as possible is not to ask, “What am I seeking?” (which causes you to ponder heavy things and slows you up), but to instead ask, “Who would I be if I weren’t seeking anything?”

The difference between genre and style. Genre is a category. Style is the life and humanity you give the art. As Jerry Saltz put it, “Dolly Parton’s ‘Jolene’ is a classic country song; the vulnerability of her performance is what makes you die inside when you hear it.”

-The better story wins.

-Relax. You can’t read every book.

-A great way to live: follow your interests and share them with the world.

Some notes on writing

I’ve been having difficulty deciding how to begin a larger piece of writing. So I taped this list to my computer for guidance and inspiration:

-Create with whatever is in front of you and be indifferent to whether people like it.

-Articles are like songs and books are like records. And records are art. You can make them about anything you want.

-The work will be good if it comes out of necessity. It must be something you can’t not say.

-Write every day. Write what is inside of you, what naturally comes to the surface.

-You should feel excited about what you’re writing; it shouldn’t feel like a chore.

-Start with an image. Then give it form.

-Be more attentive to what is arising within you than what’s going on around you.

-First drafts are for the muse, inspiration, and spontaneity. Save thinking for the revising part.

-Start. Your piece will take shape as you go.

-“When in doubt, it’s Resistance.” -Steven Pressfield

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